Rebirth of the Villainous Female Boss-Chapter 798 - 772: The Extremely Difficult Choices Given by Boss Qian (Thanks to Nana’s sweetheart and Master Shi Bi for the update)

Chapter 798 -772: The Extremely Difficult Choices Given by Boss Qian (Thanks to Nana’s sweetheart and Master Shi Bi for the update)

“Because I noticed that the man looked quite normal, not like a drug addict, and a gambler wouldn’t dress so formally. He didn’t smell of alcohol, so he’s not an alcoholic. That means the only thing that could make you blurt out ‘divorce’ must be domestic violence.”

Da Yi thought that there must be fundamental issues between the two, as for marriage, fundamental issues usually involve drugs, gambling, and domestic violence.

“Very good analysis. You can be even more detailed and confident. When she called, she deliberately mentioned her location and who she was with. It shows that her husband has a strong need to control her. She also has a bruise around her eye. The first thing her husband did upon arrival was to check if there were any men around her. Although he was polite, his gaze and demeanor couldn’t hide that he’s an aggressive man, and the likelihood of domestic violence is 90%.”

Da Yi nodded; she had thought along the same lines, just not as fast as Boss Qian.

“There’s a real difference between 20 and 2000 cases.”

Da Yi sincerely admired Xiao Qian’s calm and composed demeanor when dealing with patients, an effect she desperately tried to achieve. Da Yi believed that a doctor should have a temperament like Xiao Qian; patients would feel at ease with such a doctor.

“Everyone starts with 20 cases. If you work hard, you will definitely progress. Handling such cases at this stage is suitable for you to gradually gain experience.”

“But she said she wouldn’t come to me.”

“She’ll come to you after she’s beaten again. By then, you should know how to treat her. Remember, the principle when dealing with female victims of domestic violence is not to ask them why they don’t get a divorce.”

“Why would you say that?” A curious member of the Urban Management Team asked. If they are experiencing domestic violence, why not ask why they don’t leave the scumbag?

“There are many reasons for domestic violence, and the coping methods are varied. Many women who don’t leave are not just due to psychological reasons, but also pathological reasons. If a woman with battered spouse syndrome doesn’t receive treatment, she still won’t be able to lead an independent life, and it can easily lead to tragedy. Go to the women’s prison and see how many female criminals who killed their husbands share this situation. You can also go to the men’s prison to see male criminals who killed their wives might also have similar situations. Some women simply don’t have the instinct to survive on their own. If you tell them to divorce, they feel like the sky is falling. Without proper treatment, they might be in an even worse situation.”

When the frustration reaches a certain level and explodes, either the woman kills the man or the violent man cannot stand the woman leaving and kills her. So casually asking why they don’t divorce is not something a professional psychologist should do.

Xiao Qian’s explanation was hard for the Urban Management Team to understand and seemed very complicated.

“When you’re not directly involved, don’t stand on your perceived moral ground and talk without empathy. If you can’t solve a woman’s problems, don’t ask her why she doesn’t divorce. Only by understanding her situation and thinking of effective solutions can she regain her sense of self. Whether to leave or stay will depend on the situation. That’s the correct approach to handling domestic violence cases.”

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Domestic violence is a very common social phenomenon, with many complex reasons behind it. Every psychologist has different plans for dealing with domestic violence consultants or victims, but none of them start by accusing them of not getting a divorce.

Though many people think being beaten and abused but not divorcing is pathetic and believe such people have hateful qualities, how can they know not leaving might be due to threats from the husband to kill them or their families, or not wanting to leave for the sake of their children, or as Xiao Qian said, already developing pathological reasons and becoming excessively dependent on the violent man, similar to Stockholm Syndrome?

And if the problem isn’t solved, even after a divorce, many women continue to be beaten by their ex-husbands.

Furthermore, some women don’t divorce because of the gossips and prejudice from bystanders. Society isn’t very tolerant of divorced women, and they are often criticized by the people around them, even if the fault isn’t theirs.

When gossiping from a bystander’s perspective, do they ever consider that their behavior has become a weapon to hurt others?

Xiao Qian guided Da Yi on how to handle such cases, and Da Yi took careful notes.

After the domestic violence issue discussion, Boss Qian brought up another matter.

“When you interned at the Central Hospital, did you come across the person I mentioned?”

Xiao Qian was referring to Oliver James, the recent assignment she had given Da Yi.

As they walked and talked to the Urban Management Team’s break room, they kept their voices low. However, someone deliberately slowed down, trying to eavesdrop on their conversation.

“I met the patient yesterday. He has post-traumatic stress disorder and keeps dreaming about being bitten by a dog.”

“Tell me your thoughts.” Xiao Qian asked.

“Disease isn’t difficult, what’s difficult is the conflict in my heart. On one hand, I despise what he did. On the other, I’m a doctor, and he is my patient, so I can’t ignore him. Boss Qian, what should I do?”

Da Yi had never experienced such a dilemma before, one where her duty as a doctor and her moral compass were interwoven. This crucial step for a newcomer left her feeling lost.

“Oliver James’s case was given to you to handle on your own. I won’t give you any specific advice. Just remember, if you handle this case well, you’ll be on your way to becoming a qualified psychologist in the future.”

Psychologists need medical ethics. No matter who the patient is or what he’s done, even if he’s the most evil person, a doctor must do their best to treat them. This was Da Yi’s thought before encountering Oliver James. But after meeting him, Da Yi felt compassion and anger towards this wicked man. She despised his actions but – as a doctor – couldn’t let him succumb to his disease.

Boss Qian had given her a challenging choice, which left Da Yi feeling confused.

“I delicately asked Second Brother, of course, I couldn’t reveal any patient information. I asked him, ‘What should I do if a bad person comes to me for treatment?'”

“What did Second Brother say?”

“Second Brother said… I should see for myself.”

“Pfft,” Xiao Qian laughed. “That sounds exactly like Second Brother.”

“None of you are helping me. I’m so troubled.”

Xiao Qian spoke with Da Yi, but left her more confused. Second Brother had given her an answer? What was it?