MTL - Three Kingdoms-Chapter 2765 if so

  In the manor, the older children watched Fei Zhen leaving angrily, and then couldn't help asking in a low voice: "Is this...would it be too rude..."

   Fei Zhen couldn't lose in the debate.

  Although Fei Zhen thinks that he has read more books than the children of the Kong family, this is just his own opinion. In fact, there is still some gap with what he feels, at least Fei Zhen's mastery of Tao Te Ching is obviously lacking.

  Isn’t it possible to understand the meaning of the Tao Te Ching after reading it twice, or understanding all the words in the Tao Te Ching...

  Many children will think that they are the best looking and the smartest. There are even some children who grow up and still feel good about themselves, and Fei Zhen has a little bit of it. After all, in Guanzhong, is there a child who dares to reprimand or even mercilessly argue in front of Fei Zhen?

   Naturally, Fei Zhen was a little embarrassed, but fortunately, Fei Zhen did not become angry because of this and made a big fuss in Meizhuang, but just left angrily.

   Seeing his sister run away in anger with Fei Zhen, the eldest child can't help feeling a little nervous.

  The younger child was silent for a while, then said: "A little bit. 』

"A little? ”The older child turned his head in some doubts, blinked his eyes twice, “Then why don’t you let him go a little bit…it’s respect to a certain extent…”

"Respect? The child frowned slightly and replied, "If the world respects him, do he respect himself or his father?" 』

  『This…』The eldest child seemed to want to say that it was Jing Feizhen, but he still said honestly at the end, 『Nai Jing Huqi. 』

  The child asked again, "The hussars treat you and me with courtesy, so you send his son to go in rudely. Isn't this in the name of bad hussars?" His son is rude, because we respect hussars, so should he be respected if he is rude? 』

  『This…』 said the older child, 『Then you can’t either…』

  『Since the debate is difficult, there must be winners and losers. ’ said the child, ‘what’s more, if you have to make room for even a mere debate, how can you become a master? 』

  The older child was speechless, his eyes were still looking out of the courtyard, as if to say, then it can't be said that he just ran away from the argument...

   After a pause, the younger child said, "Brother, have you ever heard the saying that "the king does not enter the minister's house, and the father... the father does not enter the son's house"?" 』Maybe the mention of his father caused the younger child to freeze for a moment.

  The older child was stunned, "Is there such a saying? 』

  The child nodded, "Brother, do you think so?" Since it is said that the ruler is the guide for the ministers, and the father is the guide for the sons, is it possible that the land of the world is the land of the king, since it is the land of the king, there is no rule, but why does it also say that "the king does not enter the minister's house, and the father does not enter the son's house"? 』

  The older child tilted his head, thinking.

  In the traditional Chinese culture, Confucian culture has always occupied the most important position. Gangchang ethics is the most important thought in Confucian culture. In the feudal system, there is a strict hierarchy, and in this hierarchy, such a sentence seems to violate the three cardinal principles and five constant principles.

  The specific source of this sentence, or who said it, is not easy to test, similar to "the king does not see the minister's wife", etc., are actually the same thing.

This etiquette requirement must have existed before the Tang Dynasty. I won’t talk about the nasty things about Tang’s nose. Those who know the details must be talking about it. If it is mentioned, it may come from Qi Yigong. Somewhat traditional. At the moment of the big man, there is no need to mention the old classmate Cao, even Liu Chan, the queen master, seems to be a little bit involved. (This chapter says Note 1, Note 2, Note 3)

As for the various oracle dramas of later generations, the emperor went to the courtier's house as if he was in his own back garden. Seeing the courtier's wife was like meeting a lady in the club, which is actually a great feeling. The slander against the ceremony of China.

  Most of the emperors paid great attention to this issue, and they were not as confused as they were in various dramas.

  China has been a country that attaches great importance to etiquette since ancient times. No matter visiting at home or looking for relatives and friends, etiquette must be followed, especially among the children of the gentry.

  Fei Zhen felt that this manor belonged to her family, and she could come in and out at will, which was actually a very rude thing. It's like when a relative comes to live in your own house, and then you can open the door of the relative's room at will and break in without any scruples? Or it may be like the landlord thinks that he has a real estate certificate, so he can come in and out at any time without telling the tenant, and then he can accuse the tenant of being a big boss, without thinking about who owns the house, here you are Living here, still don't know how to be grateful?

  『The ruler does not enter the minister’s house, and the father does not enter the son’s house. 』

   This is the most basic concept of property rights in China, and it is a moral constraint to protect private space from being violated. It shows that even a gentleman must follow etiquette and respect others before he can be respected by others.

Although this sentence cannot completely stop the king from encroaching with power, it at least shows that this matter is wrong and immoral. Take Cao Cao as an example. Look, he laughed straight, "Oh, this is your wife..."

  So what should I do if I want to be a courtier?

  This is ethics, this is morality, and this is the most basic etiquette for people.

  If you want to be respected by others, you must first know how to respect others.

In Dream of Red Mansions, Jia Zhen in Ningguo Mansion was not very good in this aspect, so Jiao Da got drunk and scolded "every day stealing dogs and playing chickens, crawling ashes climbing ashes, raising younger uncles raising younger uncles" and so on. . No matter in what era, this is the most immoral behavior, so when Jiao Da got drunk and cursed, "Scared all the little guys out of their wits", they dared not even listen to such words. Therefore, "the ruler does not enter the minister's house, and the father does not enter the son's house", although it is a common saying, it is a very reasonable sentence. It involves the most basic and unbreakable bottom line of being a person and being a superior.

Back to the property of Meiling Manor, it is indeed Fei's manor, but since it has been given to the Kong brothers and sisters to live in, no matter whether it is leased or donated, Fei Zhen broke in directly without notification. Just an act of disrespect. So the daughter of the Kong family pointed it out bluntly and gave Fei Zhen a retaliation. Could it be that the second son of the Kong family was ignorant and ungrateful?

  For example, "If my father hadn't rescued you back, you would have died long ago?" 』

   Or "If my father didn't give you a house to live in, would you sleep on the street?" 』

   and so on.

  It is indeed an "if". If there is no father Huqi, who would sincerely respect Fei Zhen?

  『Just like you and me. The child said in a low voice, "If you don't have the name of your father, how can you and I live here?" Therefore, these trivial matters are trivial matters! Brother, you and I have more important things to do...』

"what? ’ The older child’s eyes widened, ‘What’s more important? What's the big deal? 』

  『You haven’t thought about it,』 Kong’s daughter frowned and asked. Have you thought about it? 』

  The older child thought for a long time, and then asked hesitantly, "Hmm... Could it be... a horse bone?" 』

  Ms. Kong said: "The horse bone was left to us by my father...but this reputation can be used for a while, how can it be used for a lifetime?" If the son of Hushi can bully you and me rudely today, but you and I are obedient and ignorant of right and wrong, who will tell right from wrong for you and me in the future? 』

  The older child scratched the back of his head, "Is that so..."

  『However, I would like to thank the eldest son for being rude to enter today...』 Kong’s daughter smiled, showing a small canine tooth, "Today, one person can retreat, but it will prevent hundreds of people from coming in the future!" Presumably it will be a lot cleaner next time, just enough for you and me to concentrate...』

"what? 』The eldest child failed to turn the corner.

  Ms. Kong nodded, and then looked at the older child seriously, "So, brother, do you have the awareness to be a good horse now?" As the saying goes, a thousand pieces of gold are like bones, but elder brother thinks that you and I are worth a thousand pieces of gold right now? If it's not worth it, then how can you and I live here for a long time? Even if it is a temporary residence, how long can you live here? Where will it be then? In the name of father, how long are we going to protect us? With all these things, elder brother still thinks that being polite or rude to the Hussar's son is a big thing at the moment? 』

  『This…』The older child stood there for a while, with beads of sweat dripping from his forehead, and cupped his hands and said, 『My little sister is right, so what is the most important thing for us to do right now? 』

"read. Now you and I can't shoulder shoulders, can't reach the books, are single and weak, even if we have thousands of ambitions, it's better to concentrate on reading. ’ Kong’s daughter said, categorically, ‘the ancestors of Kong’s family were famous for their scriptures, how can they fall down now? ! Take advantage of this place to reject outsiders, study hard, and increase knowledge, so that you and I will be the foundation of our lives! Fang is the long road! Brother is still obsessed with such trivial matters, when will he be able to become a tool? If elder brother can't support Kong's name, please speak up earlier. The younger sister is not talented, and she doesn't want to be reduced to dust in the name of her father! 』

  …o(TωT)o…

  A group of gentry children gathered in one place, chattering.

"Hey! Have you heard? The children of the Kong family have arrived in Chang'an! He was also arranged by the hussars in Meiling Village! 』

  『That Kong? 』

  『And that one? Kong Rong Kong Wenju ah! 』

"what! Kong Wenju children? What is the use of Kong Wenju's children? How about Kong Wenju himself? Why didn't the hussars bring Kong Wenju himself to Chang'an? ’A middle-aged man with three strands of long beard and an upright face suddenly stepped in, and said loudly, ‘Could it be that this child has something to do with the hussars? Is it the children of Huqi who were left behind? Otherwise, why is there such preferential treatment? 』

  The middle-aged man spoke righteously, but suddenly found that everyone suddenly seemed to be half a step away from him, and couldn't help but panic, "Huh? What are you... what are you doing? 』

  The rest of the gentry children stared at him, and it took a while before someone asked: "Are you really not understanding, or are you pretending not to understand?" If you really don’t understand, you’re stupid, if you pretend you don’t understand, you’re bad! After all, who are you? 』

"you you you! How can you be so rude! The middle-aged man was furious, "This is just an argument!" This is so bright and clear, could it be that people can't talk about it? ! How is it either stupid or broken? This statement is so rude! 』

"Oh? Is that rude? Isn't it rude for you to slander hussars behind their backs? ’ Another disciple of the gentry said, ‘You can say that the hussars have great means, or you can say what the hussars are trying to do with this move, it doesn’t matter. What do you mean by leaning on the other people three ways? Do you only know how to leave your children when you co-author Huqi? 』

  『This...this...』The middle-aged scholar stared and tried to explain, "I just said it like this...I didn’t mean it like that...I just...just say it, just say it..."

  It seemed that the patrol inspector on the street had noticed this place, and turned his head to look over. The middle-aged scholar quickly covered his head and face, and hurried away, causing the rest of the noble children to burst into laughter.

  A scholar nodded to the middle-aged man who covered his face and walked away, "Tsk! Even if it is spreading rumors, do you have to think of a better reason? Really... If you talk about Prime Minister Cao, you may have some children who are away from home. If you want to talk about this hussar, I am afraid that if someone rushes to send it up, even the hussar will look down on him! 』

"Eh? What do you mean by "send it up"? 』

"My younger sister is also virtuous and virtuous, as beautiful as a flower. I have heard the name of Hussar for a long time, and I also admire her... It's a pity, alas, I heard that many of the maids in the Zhiyin Prison originally wanted that... In the end, Hussar went away. Don't go, you say," the scholar tapped the back of one hand twice in the palm of the other, "what else do you need to be outside, even if you want to be inside..."

  『Oh, I am Zuo Feng Yichang, not yet married...』

  『Uh uh, don’t, don’t be so close…』

   Among the crowd, there was another burst of laughter.

  Different from ordinary gentry children, Wei Duan, who lives in the Wei Mansion and stays behind closed doors, thinks of more things.

  Retirement.

   Not imprisonment.

  So Wei Duan can still get in touch with the outside world, and for people like Wei Duan, he must be unwilling to just keep silent like this, and then the clan will be reduced to a poor family.

  Thus, although Wei Duan thanked guests behind closed doors, lived in seclusion, and acted honestly, in fact, his mind was still in the court, paying attention to any troubles inside and outside Chang'an.

   Just like the news that the children of the Kong family and related people in Shandong have arrived in Chang'an this time, Wei Duan naturally heard about it and had some ideas...

   Seriously in Wei Duan, the children of the Kong family are not just two children, but more like two pieces of delicious meat!

  So Wei Duan immediately got into the study, rummaged through the boxes and cabinets, and didn't even have the heart to eat the dried meat.

   Wei Kang, Wei Duan's good son, naturally cannot sit still after his father retires from office. 『Father, what are you looking for? 』

"Come on, help me find it together..." Wei Duan is old after all, he has been busy for a while, his back hurts, and he is a little dizzy, so he panted and said, "Look for it, find the letter between Weifu and Kong Wenju ...'

  『Kong Wenju? Wei Kang asked, "What are you looking for in his letters?" 』

  『Kong Wenju’s children are now in Chang’an! ”Wei Duan breathed calmly, “Do you know what this means? 』

  If you are in Chang'an, you are in Chang'an. What else can this mean? What's the point? What does this have to do with us? Wei Kang slandered in his stomach, but he couldn't say it out of his mouth, so he just shook his head.

  『Zizi! 』Wei Duan suddenly felt a little out of breath again.

   Wei Kang lowered his head, looking like a good baby.

  When the father is angry, he will do this, but doing so does not mean that he understands the truth and mistakes, but non-violent non-cooperation.

That's right, although Wei Kang has gone through such hardships, but just like in later generations, tutoring children with homework can lead to cerebral hemorrhage. Bear children are still bear children, and they will not become more sensible just because their parents have cerebral hemorrhage. If you can not do your homework or do not do your homework, even if you are severely beaten by the society one day, you may not be able to repent.

  Wei Duan didn't bother to explain to Wei Kangduo. Sometimes he felt that his son didn't look like his own. If the big man didn't have any DNA testing methods at the moment, Wei Duan might want to check it out. So Wei Duan just ordered Wei Kang to search among the old slips and find out the letters between Wei Duan and Kong Rong back then.

Kong Rong was famous all over the world at that time, especially when he held an important position in the imperial court under He Jin, many people continued to explore literature, ask for advice on the name of the scriptures, or visit in person, or write letters for advice, so Wei Duan and Kong Rong also exchanged letters...

  However, so many years have passed, even the letters and paper of later generations may not be well preserved under the changing seasons of spring, summer, autumn and winter, let alone the bamboo slips, wooden slips and silk scripts of the Han Dynasty.

   Wei Kang pouted his buttocks and rummaged through the pile of old papers. Under the dust, he found a lot of old wooden slips and tattered bamboo slips, but he did not find the letters between Wei Duan and Kong Rong that Wei Duan mentioned.

  It was just to build a relationship with Kong Rong back then, so although these letters written by Wei Duan back then could not be said to be thrown away, they were not stored carefully. After so many years, it is not easy to find them out.

   After all, who would have thought of this?

  If Wei Duan knew about the situation like today, he must find a good container, put some quicklime in it, wrap it with oiled paper and silk cloth, and keep the letters well.

  "Father..." Wei Kang was ashamed and exhausted, "I really can't find it...Father, why are you looking for this letter?" 』

  Perhaps because of Wei Kang's hard work in searching, Wei Duan wasn't as angry as before, so he said in a deep voice: "Hussar's move has a lot of meaning. Think about it, who is Kong Wenju? 』

  『A descendant of Confucius? ’ Wei Kang replied.

   Wei Duan closed his eyes, "What else? There are so many descendants of Confucius! Why did you save Kong Wenju's children? 』

  『This...the leader of Shandong Wenhua? 』Wei Kang lowered his voice.

  『Shandong Wenhua has so many generations, why save the children of the Kong family? ”Wei Duan frowned, “Why are you still so superficial when you think about the problem even today? 』

   Wei Kangba smacked his lips, as if he wanted to say something, but he was choked by the surrounding dust, and suddenly coughed.

"Forget it, you get up first," Wei Duan waved his hands, then raised his head, and after thinking for a while, he said slowly, "This Hussar rescued the children of the Kong family, don't think it's a trivial matter... See, there are at least three layers of thinking...』

  Note 1: In the early days, when Duke Yi was a son, he hunted with Bingrong’s father, but he was invincible. The wife of a mediocre job is good, the palace of the public, so that the mediocre job can take advantage of it. In May, Duke Yi traveled to Shenchi, where they bathed and played. The job said: "Brother's foot!" Rong said: "Wife takers!" 』These two people are both sick. This is a resentment. They planned to travel to Zhuzhong with the public. The two killed Yi on the bus, abandoned the bamboo and died.

  Note 2: In the first month of the twelfth year, Yan's wife, Hu's family, came to congratulate the Empress Dowager, and the Empress Dowager ordered Hu's family to be specially reserved, and she came out after a month. The Hu family was beautiful, and Yan suspected that he had an affair with his successor, so he called five hundred Hus, and then used his shoes to catch his face, and then abandoned him. Hu Ju told Yan Yan, Yan was sent to prison, and a judge said: "The death is not the wife of Laos, and the face is not the place to be walked on." 』Yan actually abandoned the market. Since the minister's wife and mother Chao Qing then died. (Note again, this Yan is not Cui Yan.)

  Note 3: Lao Cao jumped, "I don't have any!" Your example is inappropriate! My wife is a widow! 』

  『Why don’t you just give me a chestnut? What are you in a hurry for? 』

  Lao Cao said, why not lift a hussar when lifting chestnuts? !

  Does the hussars have so many wives? No one else would believe it!

  Old Cao...