After Rebirth, the Celebrity Daughter is the Medical Expert!-Chapter 379 - 285: Second Update

For such a client.

What she needs to do is never to define her.

She only needs to provide her with analysis, to help her see more clearly the problems she has discovered in herself.

Finally, tell her what she should do about it.

Mental manipulation can truly destroy a person’s will.

The most painful moment for someone being manipulated is when you realize you are hopelessly distant from the best version of yourself—your true self.

Liang Yiyi lost her confidence, self-esteem, independence, courage, and happiness in this intimate relationship.

She spent a long time only wanting her husband’s approval.

Until recently, she began to understand that this was a goal she could never achieve.

This indicates that she has been manipulated to the third stage.

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In the first stage of being manipulated, Liang Yiyi hoped to gain her husband’s approval, for him to affirm that she is a lovely, outstanding, and lovable person.

But if she couldn’t achieve it, she could still accept it.

When there was a disagreement between them, she would start from her own position. If he said something that seemed wrong, she would argue with him.

In the event of a conflict, she could still maintain her own judgment and question him.

In the second stage—

When disagreements arose between Liang Yiyi and her husband, she would question but habitually consider his perspective and opinions.

She believed his viewpoint was normal and desperately sought opportunities to communicate, to express her own viewpoint, to prove she is lovable, excellent, right, etc.

Yet by that time, she had already lost her judgment and couldn’t see the bigger picture, only getting entangled in the details he criticized her for.

One of the most dangerous features of the third stage is her increasingly severe cognitive deficiency.

Feelings of frustration, despair, and lack of enjoyment seemed particularly normal.

This is Liang Yiyi’s current state, shutting herself off, no longer interacting with others, forgetting what she used to be like, feeling numb to life, unable to find joy in anything, living like a zombie, exhausted from the torment, not even wanting to argue with her husband anymore and having no expectations of him, of course, without questioning his judgment either—

If it weren’t for her daughter discovering her problem and trying hard to help her, to awaken her.

She would have completely fallen into despair, without her husband needing to continue manipulating her, as her own vitality would rapidly deplete.

Fortunately...

She has a daughter, someone who strives to awaken her and help her get out.

"Yes, I have realized that my relationship with my husband has a problem," Liang Yiyi said. "For the past few months, I have been considering whether to take action."

Ning Youguang smiled and said, "Congratulations on deciding not to continue playing the manipulation game with him!"

Little glimmers of light appeared in Liang Yiyi’s eyes.

Ning Youguang continued to ask, "Have you decided to change the rules of the game with your husband?"

"Yes, I used to be very worried about divorcing my husband, terrified of being separated from him, afraid that from then on I would have no home, no family, but Lele told me I still have her, she can accompany me."

A smile appeared on Liang Yiyi’s face, "Lele has grown up, she is smarter and braver than me, I am her mother, and since she is so brave in helping me, if I continue to entangle myself with her father in a meaningless way, I would truly be brainless."

—"I’m not only brainless, I also have no responsibility or sense of duty, I don’t deserve to be a mother." 1314